Little by little my friends are disappearing...most of them are going into retirement homes or assisted living, which is very depressing.
But not for my friends because they need care and lots of help.
As I grow older each day and year, I realize my kids are now middle aged and that bothers me too.
I'm considered an elderly woman now. The people who live here at Highpoint can be my children. I'm asked out a little..but not a whole lot because I'm a generation older. And when I was their age, I didn't want an old lady tagging along either.
Although I have to say I manage to make interesting conversation. Some say that I interview people...but I do know for a fact that a person likes to talk about himself.
And I am very interested. Not in a curious way...but I'm interested in what they have to say.
Conversation mainly consists of what restaurants have the best lobster cheap.....or their left leg hurts and they're getting therapy. Another great subject is their children. To be honest, I've never met anyone's grown-up children that I haven't liked...so they must have done something right.
I'm really not complaining...just stating my thoughts. I'm very fortunate and for that I'm extremely grateful.
I always wanted to do something great or spectacular...but I guess it's not going to happen....and the reason for that is...I didn't make it happen. I know now that a person must be highly motivated.
I'm lucky I have a very loving family...not huge...but we're close. I still remember everyone's birthday and put a little something in the envelope to have dinner on me.
So...whomever is reading this....thanks for letting me air my thoughts.
I do appreciate.
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I just received this lovely email from my friend Joe. Hope he doesn't mind that I'm publishing it.
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DEAR HILDA,
I JUST RETURNED FROM N.Y. ANOTHER LONG TIREING ,I KNOW THAT TIRING IS MISSPELLED BUT AFTER THAT DRIVE YOU GET THE IDEA.
I READ YOUR BLOG. SO YOU WANTED TO DO SOME THING SPECTACULAR DURING YOUR LIFE. WELL YOU GOT MARRIED. I ASSUME THAT YOUR HUSBAND WAS A NICE GENTLEMAN. PROBABLY DUE TO YOU. YOU HAD A SON. HE'S A NICE GUY. AGAIN PROBABLY DUE TO YOU. YOU HAD A TOY STORE. DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT ALL OF THE KIDS YOU MADE HAPPY. HOW MANY PARENTS YOU PUT A SMILE ON THEIR FACES BECAUSE YOU HAD A TOY OR THE TOY THEY WERE LOOKING FOR.
YOU HAVE MADE MANY FRIENDS OVER THE YEARS. YOU STILL GO TO SEE AND CHEER UP FRIENDS IN NURSING HOMES. THAT IS A TREMENDOUS ACCOMPLISHMENT. I KNOW BECAUSE I WAS CRITICIZED ONCE BY SOME ONE WHO SHALL REMAIN NAMELESS FOR VISITING A COUPLE IN A HOME. SHE SAID I WAS CRAZY FOR DOING THAT.
I DIDN'T BECOME A FIGHTER PILOT. OR A RACING DRIVER. I DIDN'T WIN THE INDY 500 OR A GRAND PRIX. BUT I MARRIED A GREAT GIRL,HAD A COUPLE OF WONDERFUL DAUGHTERS AND WAS SOMEWHAT SUCCESSFUL AS A DIAMOND SETTER. THE PRESIDENT OF ROLEX ONCE GAVE ME A GREAT COMPLIMENT WHEN TELLING ME THAT MY WORK WAS AMAZING.AND I HAD A GOOD REPUTATION IN THE DIAMOND DISTRICT AS AN HONEST ,HARD WORKING PROFICIENT GUY WITH A GOOD PAIR OF HANDS.
I'M STILL CONSIDERED A MANIAC BY SOME PEOPLE FROM MY PAST FOR SOME OF THE ANTICS WE PULLED OFF IN MY YOUNGER DAYS. AND I WAS THE MOST LEVEL HEADED OF THE GROUP!! I THINK THAT IS SPECTACULAR.
YOU SAY THAT YOU DON'T HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS LEFT. WELL YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE ME AND ANNA MARIE. EVEN THOUGH WE SEEM TO BE GOING A HUNDRED MILES AN HOUR PLEASE FEEL FREE TO GIVE US A CALL IF YOU WANT TO JUST HANG OUT AND WATCH TV,GO TO THE MOVIES OR JUST FOR A BITE. IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AN OCCASION.
HOPE TO SEE YOU S
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Here's something I want to incorporate from my friend Pat.
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I. Cant comment on your blog but I will here. YOU are one of the most interesting people I have met here. Don't ever feel that you are not "wanted" to share a dinner or a movie with. You are always welcome and I'm just across the street remenber that. You have two wonderful sons and their sons and now a new little baby. You are blessed.
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